Sunday, December 22, 2013

5 Songs that will motivate you while working-out.

5 songs that make your work-out 10 times better.

1) Country Girl (Shake it for me) Luke Bryan  
It's impossible to listen to this song with out wanting to 'bust a move'.

2) Let the Groove in  Justin Timberlake
With the right amount of latin, zumba work-outs go from exciting, to full on woo-hoo exciting!

3) Roar Katy Perry
How can you not want to dance with this song? 

4) Work B!tch  Brittany Spears
This song helps a work-out and inspires because Brittany Spears herself is so fit.

5) Black Skinhead  Kanye West
There is no way this song can't help you get motivated. 



Got any songs you listen to when you work out? Comment below with what they are!


Monday, December 16, 2013

The Top Five Ways to Forgive an Old Friend

I've gotten into so many fights with my best/close friends in the past years and guess what? i'm still friends with all of them! Woah! Picture that!
 5) Shoot them a text and ask if you two can work out your differences. Texting isn't the best way to forgive/forget but it works if you plan to meet up and discuss the problem. Sometimes texting can give off the wrong emotion.
4) Meet them unexpectedly. They will be shocked. It's kind of like corning them into forcing them to converse with you, but they should feel the care you have to know where she was at.
3) Hang out with a friend you share together. Don't get in an argument though. Just hang out. Go shopping, out to eat, something we you can catch up and not bring up the reason why you guys were fighting in the first place.
2) Writing a letter to them is a VERY good way to forgive a friend. It's a good way to ask for forgiveness. Basically, if you write a long handwritten letter to anybody, it will show emotion of some sort.
1) Write it indirectly, but publicly. It's where only certain people will know what it's about, but it will show that forgiveness, Trust me.

xx Chelsea
It's final week for college right now; I should feel so relieved to be done with my first semester of college. Am I though?
Not quite. Break is going to be so stressful for me I don't know what I'm going to do.

One of my best 'guy' friends told me recently that he has a crush on me and wants to be with me. Let me tell you right away that I don't feel the same way and ever since he told me, I've been feeling annoyed by his presence. I mean, we used to be able to talk about anything and everything. Now, all he wants to talk about is how much he wants to date me, what he would do if he were dating me, and etc. It's gotten to the point where I don't want to talk to him at all.

On top of that, I told him long back that I have a boyfriend. Now do I really have a boyfriend? No. Shit, it's obvious. However, I tell him that I have one and this fake boyfriend is kind of saving my ass right now. I mean, I suck at saying no to people. Shit, I'm the WORST at turning people down, rejecting offers I don't want, etc., etc., etc.  I don't have the time for a boyfriend; working over 40 hours a week and being a full time student doesn't allow the extra time to have a significant other.

My life needs that cherry on top though. Over the summer, I joined a free dating site for the hell of it. I have over 300 people near my location that want to meet me. I've turned then all down. However, I have been texting this one guy I met on the site. I like him and he wants to meet up with me sometime. December 28th. Yeah. But I CAN"T. I'm nervous as heck and I absolutely suck at relationships anyways. Also, as i stated earlier, I don't have the relationship time slotted out in my life right now. So, BAM! I don't know what to do. I feel terrible, but I know I am a horrible person with relationships. Shit, I've never had a relationship over 4 months and I'm eighteen. I know. I know. No hating, please.

I just hope that this holiday season ends up turning well and I know very much so that my actions are a huge factor for that actually happening.

xx Chelsea